For illustration, let us just say that you have been moved to a strange, unknown country with its own practices and activities.

  You may not have requested or ever wanted to move or be moved to this country that you have only heard about.

  Many initially spend a lot of effort and want badly to return to the old country, Marriedland, to get out of this place.

  You hardly know anyone at all in Singletopia, since you left all of your good friends back in Marriedland.

  You are not at ease here because you do not know how to act or what to do, so nothing is or feels comfortable for you.

  You have no idea how you are expected to meet and mix with these long term natives in Singletopia.

  If you happen to meet some of these natives, you are not familiar with what to say or how to act and know not what they expect of you.

  How long will it be before they stop looking at you as a foreigner?

YOU ARE ACTUALLY AN IMMIGRANT IN OPPORTUNITY LAND

A Fresh Start And This Time Only You Are In Charge Of You

Develop a whole network of new friends in Singletopia - all you can handle - all "your kind" of people.

Select a network of friends who are going where you want to go.

Learn everyday from these new friends and expand your life more in 6 months than you ever did in the old country in 15 months.

Forget all your old programming. It won't work here.  Reprogram!

Study and observe the happiest, most successful natives and learn what works to build your new life.

Do new things every day that you would never have been able to do back in the old country.

In 6 months, you will have your new life running so good that your envious friends from the old country will be contacting you for details on moving over to Singletopia.

*New articles and additional parts of several series are posted on the web and in our Singles Newspapers monthly